Withdrawal: emotional and spiritual meaning
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What withdrawal is
Withdrawal into yourself can be a wonderful way to stop, to take time, to discover your needs. It can also be called introspection. The source is unusual in starting with the good of it. The trouble begins when the period goes on, and instead of growth and self-knowledge it becomes an occasion to close yourself to the world.
The entry does not name one part of the body. If the closing goes deep, it says you risk a profound discomfort, psychological and physical.
The emotional meaning of withdrawal
The turn is specific. You stir negative ideas. You pity yourself. You play the victim. What was a pause becomes that. The way back is to remain open, while still respecting your needs, so that you can live in joy and harmony.
A withdrawal that will not end, especially with hopelessness or with losing the wish to see anyone at all, belongs with depression and with a doctor. The page is about the pause that changed its nature.
A gentler way to hold it
The aim is not to drag you back into noise. The emotional perspective invites you to keep the part of the pause that teaches you, and to notice when it has become a closed door.
- Keep the discovery of your needs. That is the good the source names first.
- Catch the self-pity. Playing the victim is the sign the pause has changed.
- Open one inch. Respect for your needs and openness are asked to exist together.
- If the door has been shut for a long time, tell someone. A profound discomfort is what the entry says can follow.
Questions to ask yourself
Take your time with these. There are no right answers; simply notice what comes up.
- Is this withdrawal still helping me discover what I need, or has it started to close me off?
- Am I turning negative ideas over, instead of listening to myself?
- Have I begun to pity myself and play the victim?
- How long has this pause lasted, and what would opening one inch look like?
- Can I stay respectful of my needs and still remain open to the world?
“I stay open while I respect what I need. Joy and harmony have room when the pause does not become a closed door.”
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Sources and inspiration
- Jacques Martel, Le Grand Dictionnaire des Malaises et des Maladies.
This page is an original interpretation written by Body Hemi-Sync. It is inspired by these sources and does not reproduce them.