Tongue problems: spiritual meaning and emotional causes
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What tongue problems are
Tongue problems are changes in how the tongue looks, feels or works: pain, burning, swelling, sores, colour changes, a coating, or a change in taste. The tongue is a muscle covered with a moist lining and taste buds, and it is involved in eating, swallowing and speaking.
Most tongue problems are minor. Common causes include biting the tongue or burning it on hot food, mouth ulcers, irritation from sharp teeth or a brace, oral thrush (a yeast infection that leaves a white coating), and geographic tongue (harmless smooth patches that move around). A smooth, sore, red tongue (glossitis) can come from low iron, vitamin B12 or folate. Burning mouth syndrome causes a burning tongue with no visible change. Sudden swelling can be an allergic reaction or a side effect of some medicines. More rarely, a sore or patch that does not heal is a sign of mouth cancer, which is why a lasting change needs to be checked.
Care depends on the cause: time and gentle care for small injuries and ulcers, antifungal treatment for thrush, blood tests and supplements for a deficiency, and a referral if a patch or sore does not heal.
The emotional meaning of tongue problems
Spiritually, the tongue is the organ you need to put a thought into words. It is also the seat of taste. Tongue problems are therefore read along two lines: what is said and what is left unsaid, and how much you allow yourself to enjoy life.
Biting your tongue
When you bite your tongue, the question is whether you are cross with yourself for what you have just said, whether you feel guilt about your words. The old advice to "turn your tongue seven times before speaking" fits here. Can you hold your tongue when it matters, and speak when it matters too?
A burning or tingling tongue
Burning and prickling are linked to the tension between the said and the unsaid. In French, something you are dying to say "burns your tongue". What are you burning to do or say, and holding back? A feeling of powerlessness may push you into silence. You may be keeping a secret, perhaps a family secret, that you fear would bring you shame if it came out. When you feel nobody is listening, you may end up becoming indifferent to others.
Pain, sores and ulcers
A painful tongue points to something precise that you refuse to say, something that stays "on the tip of your tongue". A spot on the tip of the tongue is read as holding back your impulses and passions, in words or in actions, or as a painful memory you would like to speak about to free yourself. An ulcer on the tip is something you want to say that is burning you.
A cracked, numb, swollen or thick tongue
A cracked tongue is read as being tired of playing the "good boy" or "good girl", and wanting to tell the whole world: "Enough! Listen to me!" You are tired of feeling divided between what you want to express and what you actually say.
A numb or swollen tongue is linked to wanting to taste more of life, or to a feeling of distaste, even disgust, towards a person, a thing or a situation. A thick tongue shows how tangled up you feel in your words, not knowing how to express yourself.
Inflammation and a white coating
An inflamed tongue (glossitis) is read as withdrawing into yourself, or feeling guilty about the pleasure on offer. You do not dare to taste all the flavours of life, as if you had to punish yourself. A white, fungal coating (thrush) is linked to criticism and rage rumbling inside that you do not dare to express. You may have been hurt in the past, and prefer to stay alone with the pain.
A gentler way to hold it
A lasting sore, patch or swelling needs a doctor or dentist. Alongside that, the emotional perspective asks what is waiting to be said, and what you are waiting to enjoy.
- Find the sentence. Ask what is on the tip of your tongue, and write it down as it is.
- Choose your moment. Holding your tongue can be wise. Swallowing your words for good is something else. Decide which this is.
- Make peace with what you said. If you regret your words, repair what you can, and let the rest go.
- Ask to be heard. Say your opinion, and ask for respect for your differences.
- Taste life again. Choose one pleasure you have been denying yourself, and allow it.
Questions to ask yourself
Take your time with these. There are no right answers; simply notice what comes up.
- Did I bite my tongue just after saying something I now regret?
- What am I burning to say or do, but holding back?
- Where does it hurt not to say things as I live them?
- Am I keeping a secret, perhaps a family one, out of fear of shame?
- Am I tired of playing the "good boy" or "good girl" and wanting to be heard at last?
- Do I allow myself to enjoy the pleasures that life offers me?
“I find my words and I say what I think. I let myself taste every flavour of life.”
When to see a doctor
- Sudden swelling of the tongue, lips or throat, or difficulty breathing or swallowing. Call emergency services, as this can be a serious allergic reaction.
- A sore, ulcer, lump or red or white patch on the tongue that lasts more than 3 weeks. See a GP or dentist, as it needs to be checked for mouth cancer.
- A tongue ulcer that keeps coming back, or several ulcers at once.
- A white coating that does not rub off, or a sore tongue with pain when eating, which can be oral thrush.
- A smooth, red, sore tongue with tiredness or pale skin, which can point to low iron, vitamin B12 or folate. A blood test can check.
- A burning tongue that lasts for weeks with no visible cause.
- A bite or cut that is deep, bleeds heavily or does not heal.
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- Jacques Martel, Le Grand Dictionnaire des Malaises et des Maladies , pp. 253.
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