Stye: spiritual meaning and emotional causes
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What a stye is
A stye is a small, red, painful lump on the edge of the eyelid, at the base of an eyelash or inside the lid. It is a bacterial infection, most often by staphylococcus, of an eyelash follicle or of one of the small oil glands in the lid. The eyelid may swell and the eye may water. Styes are common and usually harmless.
Most styes heal by themselves within one to two weeks. A clean, warm compress held on the closed eye for a few minutes several times a day helps it drain. It should not be squeezed. Contact lenses and eye make-up are best avoided until it heals. A pharmacist or doctor can advise if it does not settle. A chalazion, a painless lump from a blocked gland, can look similar and sometimes needs treatment.
The emotional meaning of a stye
A stye is a small boil on the edge of the eyelid. Spiritually, it sits with what you see and what you feel about it.
Sadness and resentment about what you see
The stye is linked to sadness and resentment towards something or someone you see and that does not suit you. Often it is a person close to you, sometimes your partner, who holds a different opinion or does things another way. To your eyes, their way can feel like a stain on the picture.
Ugliness in the situation
Styes and conjunctivitis both concern what you would rather not see. The nuance is that with a stye, you find something ugly in the situation. It is not only painful to look at. It offends your sense of how things should be.
Pushed aside, or afraid you got it wrong
A stye can also follow a moment of being set aside. Or you may believe you acted badly when you meant well, and want to repair your "mistake". Insecurity and uncertainty are close by.
Feeling too small to steer your life
The deeper question is about mastery. You may feel you are not in charge of yourself, and need someone else's strength to lean on because you feel too small. It is possible to hide behind another person. Then it becomes hard to create the life you want: you grow passive, you close yourself to the openings that come, and life can start to feel empty and cold.
A gentler way to hold it
- Say what you feel. Sadness or irritation that has words, spoken or written, does not need to stay held back.
- Look again at the "stain". Ask whether the other person's way is wrong, or only different from yours.
- Forgive the mistake. If you blame yourself for something you did with good intentions, recognise the intention.
- Stand on your own feet. Notice where you lean on someone else, and choose one decision you can take yourself.
- Take a front-row seat. In French, being aux premières loges means having the best seats in the house. Be present in your own life, close to the stage, rather than watching from behind someone else.
Questions to ask yourself
Take your time with these. There are no right answers; simply notice what comes up.
- What am I looking at right now that does not sit right with me?
- Is someone close to me doing things differently, and do I see it as a stain?
- Have I been pushed aside, or do I blame myself for a mistake I made while trying to do well?
- Do I lean on someone else's strength because I feel too small to manage alone?
- Which opportunities have I let pass because I stayed in the background?
- What emotion have I been holding back instead of saying it?
“I let my emotions be expressed. I take my place in my own life, in the front row.”
When to see a doctor
- Redness or swelling that spreads across the eyelid or around the eye, or an eye that becomes very painful.
- Any change in your vision, or pain when you move the eye.
- A stye that has not improved after one to two weeks, or one that keeps coming back.
- A lump that is getting bigger, bleeds, or changes the shape of the eyelid.
- Do not squeeze or burst a stye. If antibiotics are prescribed, finish the course.
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- Jacques Martel, Le Grand Dictionnaire des Malaises et des Maladies , pp. 310.
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